How to Make Sure He Calls You Back
By Matthew Hussey
So you've met once and had a great conversation, you
gave him your number and expected a call, but he hasn't called...
at all, days go by and it looks like he's not getting in touch. Why
do some guys do this?
Well there are a number of reasons why this happens, but there is
one surefire method to guarantee he will call you back every time.
Are you ready for it? Here is it is:
Give him something to look forward to!
When you give a guy your number, ideally you want him to be
checking every last digit because he can't wait to call that
amazing girl he met last night. So how do you make him look forward
to calling?
The most important part of getting a guy to call you is to make
your conversation beforehand as intriguing and fun as possible.
1. Offer him an intriguing date
In a nutshell, you want to avoid the boring clichés of number
exchanges. Don't offer him your number saying something like "we
should go for drinks sometime". It's obvious and it does nothing to
build his intrigue in you as a person.
What you ideally want to do is make sure you talk about something
you're passionate about doing early in the conversation. Or if you
haven't been to the zoo in ages and really fancy it, mention that
as well. Then when it comes to exchanging numbers it's as easy as
saying: "Ok, give me a call and we'll do that zoo trip".
2. Make him want to earn your time!
Next time you're out and want to exchange numbers with a guy, try
out this line: "Look my friends are going to kill me, we're
supposed to be on a girly night tonight, I shouldn't even be
talking to you right now".
Any time you use a line like this that says "We shouldn't be doing
this", it builds his intrigue and makes him want to be involved
even more. He'll want to call you to earn more of your time.
3. Here's a great game you can play
Set silly rules for when he calls you.
Just before you give him your number, you can playfully say: "Ok,
you should know though that I have a couple of simple rules for
giving out my number to new guys. You can't call me at midnight
drunk telling me you can't wait to see me, or text me asking for
pictures. If that's cool with you then I'm happy to give it out,
but I'm warning you!"
Say this with a silly grin on your face and he'll see that you're
teasing him. You might think this line comes off as arrogant, but
it doesn't if you say it with the right tone and facial expression.
Guys like that you don't take the number exchange really seriously
and he'll look forward to calling you more.
4. Create a running joke
If you create a running joke it gives a guy an easy way to initiate
conversation on the phone.
One great way of doing this is role-playing: For example, you might
say early in conversation say to a guy "Me and my friends were
talking earlier about what superpower we would have. Mine's
invisibility obviously; what would you go for?"
Once he tells you, you can joke with him about how both of you
would use your powers.
That way, when you swap numbers you can say: "Ok superman, call me
up when you need some help fighting crime".
Since a lot of guys worry about what to say on the phone, this
gives him an easy, low-pressure way of calling you up to initiate
conversation".
Getting a guy to call you back is just the first step to creating a
longer lasting attraction that progresses into a relationship.
